After 3 months of suffering with the urinary symptoms, I went to my gyn and I kid you not, he told me to have a colonoscopy to rule out any bowel issues that could be mimicking bladder symptoms. ScarlxrdPSYCHX 2022 Kordhell x ScarlxrdReleased on: 2022-10-28Producer: KordhellAuto. To provide the best experiences, we use technologies like cookies to store and/or access device information. Not consenting or withdrawing consent, may adversely affect certain features and functions. Couldn't figure out why as both days had started off normal. I too feel like I'm slowly dying. I just started menopause, I feel very weird and sick at time. I have been hit hard!! . These feelings statements are a powerful communication tool. I do have fibroids and IBS and am recovering from Covid too (mine was very gastric) so none of that helps me understand what's going on and why. It felt strange when I breathe, like there's candyfloss in my lungs.. Lol.. I am 54 and don't want to go onto HRT hoping things will start to ease now I have gone for a year without a period, wishful thinking! my doctor told me to make a will too and that this would help. as being in breach of those terms. Patient does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. "I feel" statements should state how the speaker is feeling, the cause of that feeling, and a potential solution. Maybe you could that, give the natural route a go and if you are not satisfied with the results you could then weigh up taking antibiotics. No children, wondering if this transition is harder on women who haven't had kids (?) Every ache, pain I swear to God I am Googling convinces I have cancer or something and dying! It comes and goes and I cont plans my life because of this nausea. Also forcing beverages down to keep from getting dehydrated. May be an avenue to explore if all tests have come back fine. I've had my blood, urine, fecal checked --- all have come out normal. This might involve a person saying something like, "I feel angrywhen I am alone and you are out with your friends. Once the feeling is stated, it should be connected to an issue or event. I am so thankful to know i am not alone. So I just suffer. And we wonder why we are all getting health anxiety! I feel ______. ", "I feel worried when I don't know whether you made it home safely. For example i google "urination problems in your fifties" or something like that and guess popped up? I think together and reading each other's posts, it makes us hopeful and not so alone! I have no appetite, nausea, dry mouth, incredibly fatigued - tired, headaches, occasional hot flashes, night sweats, etc.. Fighting to keep weight on via force feeding myself. I have also had the urinary issues, mine lasted for about 8 months and seem to have tapered off just as some of my other peri symptoms have acted up again. I also noticed I cannot tolerate chocolate anymore. Verywell Mind's content is for informational and educational purposes only. Premarin and yes, i know about the mares I wanted to try this first as it got more good reviews than Estrace . Half of what i see is so inaccurate. Hot flashes come and go. Hang in there ladies. I don't own this song. I still have the weird digestive issues unfortunately. I have horrible health Anxiety been to the emergency room three times the last two years a month ago which was just recently they didnt do a ton of test but they just said you have anxiety but I just dont think anxiety causes this much pain but maybe it does!!! ya the sore throat really started freaking me out , I've read where everyone said do avoid sweets , dairy , and caffeine, so I have been and have started eating spinach and vegetables and trying to get to a healthier weight , and wasn't feeling to bad today so I thought I'd try a diet coke to see if it actually did effect my symptoms and sure enough it did not even a hr after drinking it my throat has started hurting , feel like I have a vice script on my head moreless pressure , and right lower rib started hurting again , so needless to say there will be no more caffeine in my future , I've went as far as going to cvs and buying a rapid std test because my doctors and everyone says that I'm fine even though I was checked 3 yrs ago and haven't bee. Doesn't really make me feel better as it's easy to think something was growing and wasn't yet visible to themthe mind gamesmy only ray of hope is that it has been less noticeable sometimes so i figure that wouldn't happen if it was a progressive disease. Research also suggests that this approach can be helpful when communicating with others: Some settings where I-messages are frequently utilized include: This technique is frequently used in couples therapy to help improve communication in romantic relationships. And now that anxiety is UP UP UP, my pills are struggling to work. I apologize for the TMI. The Scoreganics label was founded in 2010 in collaboration with A&E Television Networks. Don't worry about your bladder it will go away eventually. In the beginning, palpitation episodes, unwellness, digestive issues were frequent. Im nauseous but hungry. My new found thing (and it seems like something new or nagging every damn day) is my head feels all fuzzy! Hi Sherriel - I had the same bladder pressure issue. I think my bladder and digestive issues are the biggest problem causing my health anxiety. I was also so relieved to find this site and posts as have been experiencing the same symptoms, anxiety about health, aching joints, feeling sick in the morning, just found I have polyps, which has given some reassurance regarding irregular bleeding. Its only supposed to be 39-115. Hi I know this post was some time ago. i have severe nausea, ear ringing, and every other horrible symptom. I feel nauseous rather flu-like, have the anxiety especially health anxiety, muscular aches and pains, digestive issues, and the weirdest bladder symptoms ever. Ive been told by my male gynecologist that i dont have vaginal atrophy. It was only a few times. then it moves to the front and i feel pressure and aching. I had this done back in November. The results suggested that using this approach helped minimize the risk that a discussion would lead to further hostility. I am in California. Right before meno hit I had a 2 month period that seemed endless and I honestly thought I was gonna die. I have never been a "moaner". Thank you for reading my frustrations . I read your post and I have the same EXACT symptoms.the nausea is awful. i feel like i am slowly dying and even tho all my tests come back normal ( and i havr had a lot ) that they are missing something thats gonna kill me. Every day I feel like either the end is near or that I will be committedit's just insane. Have your symptoms gotten any better? On bad days, my whole body hurts. Then the rush of adrenaline.. plus panic attacks in between. YES, I am postmenopausal too, been a year and a half since my last period. i am fed up of being a moaner . One thing i notice, is that dehydration can cause me to feel rather unwell. Omg. I hope this works, too soon to tell right now. It also helps each person better understand how their own actions affect other members of the family. Hi Leisa: im now about 2 weeks post. Did yours go back down.? Each softgel contains broad spectrum hemp extract that provides a wide range of hemp's cannabinoids, terpenes, flavonoids, and other beneficial compounds. im tired of being sick im praying hard to have helthy day and restful night . Then once I've calm down I drive myself back home. im with you getting down and seeking God is the only thing i need too God is in control of our health . I dont want to use HRT. Hello Sasical hope this email finds you well . i have been post menopause since 2015. I hope things get better for all of us. I had to cancel and I now realize it has nothing to do with my sinuses! Does not burn when I go and my at home test for UTI was negative. doi:10.7717/peerj.4831, Biesen JN, Schooler DE, Smith DA. You are absolutely right about googling. I hope you feel better but at least you know you aren't alone. Erin Johnston, LCSW is a therapist, counselor, coach, and mediator with a private practice in Chicago, Illinois. Im going to talk to the menopause expert at the doctors office about it. some say try the Obgyn office, but I'm tired of being disappointed. Uggh.. it is really getting to me. its putting me into depression, Hi Becky, I'm exactly the same don't feel right and when I wake up you don't feel you either people say it will get better and that's my only hope..I'm glad you are feeling better it's so hard. I am sorry you are feeling this way too. Im 55; will be 56 in August. So an ultrasound and it showed a rough texture. I feel like hiding and just hoping for my body to stop this storm. I am a believer in God/Jesus as well and He is my Saviour! I get reflux and then I take a tums and then it stops the reflux but causes me to have a pulling nagging pain between breast and shoulder blades. Everyone described me as "strong". While this statement starts with an expression of how the speaker feels, it concludes with an accusation. my nausea was about once a month for over a year. Upgrade to Patient Pro Medical Professional? If it's not one thing it's another! Yes id love to talk to anyone about this. I have been like this for 3 years and I'm finding it harder and harder to cope. googling this fills me with worry, glad to see I'm not alone, i also have been diagnosed with SIBOi spent so much money on the test, supplements, probiotics etc.since i have started my hormone replacement these issues have cleared up IDK, That's interesting Corinne the one thing that keeps me (semi)sane and that helps me think it's hormonal rather than something more horrendous is that on the rare occasions that I have a period these days, both the day before and on day 1 of my period I feel almost "normal". my latest fears are thinking i no longer love my bf and that i am attracked to women. I just want to feel better and stay well. Hi, I've developed this anxiety this year about fear I'm dying. Moderator comment: I have removed the contact details as we do not publish these in the forums. I have been burping more than normal. I was in recovery for PTSD and dealing with anxiety and depression before perimenopause hit and then this pandemic followed. mind you it was very painful some days but I guess sad to say I've learned most days to cope. Don't really bother me but do any of you ladies have this awful nausea? also another symptom of perimenopause is obtrusive thoughts with no factual basis. How are you honey! By using "I feel" statements, couples can focus their communication on what they are feeling rather than assigning blame and making their arguments worse. and Privacy Policy and steps will be taken to remove posts identified However, everybody can learn to use these and will benefit from non-accusatory communication. Read our. You really will be ok. She practices in Washington state and im in Virginia so i have to watch her on YouTube. I did need to start taking medication, but I don't want to be on it. I'm having the same problems with my liver.My Alp is 150 and I'm getting test done next week and google has scared the crap out of me. "I feel stressed out when the house is so disorganized. Fear to be alone and hard to be with my husband too. I hope this passes because it does totally drain the life out of you. The health anxiety I have developed is almost paralysing. i given up i dont think ever will get back to normal..its been 10 years for me! My primary care doc set me up with an ENT to determine if my head had something to do with my nasal sinuses. But be reassured you really are ok. Hormones effect every part of our body and it's normal. Does this sound familiar. Although there is some mention of the other persons behavior, the focus continues to be on the uncomfortable feeling experienced by the speaker. it was prescribed me for palpitations but i felt even sicker taking it . Several other times no hospitilization very nauseous with dry heaves. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for anonymous statistical purposes. I have had this deep ache and almost burning type sensation right on top of my pubic bone. Going through meno is awful! But it's one of the perimenopause symptoms some of us experience as I speak to other women going thru perimenopause and some have talked about this kind of symptoms. I am 49 and I swear this hit me overnight. Misunderstandings in relationships happen to everyone. Panicking with every single new symptom and the pandemic is not helping. This defeats the goal of using feeling statements. I found that what helped was Probiotic Pearls for women's vaginal and digestive health. Im now seeing a traditional Gastro Dr who takes my insurance i was praying not to repeat tests with her which she didnt . appropriate medical assistance immediately. sadly the pain remains. I would love to talk with anyone about menopause. My mom never mentioned it. Hi, i just read your post and i feel exactly the same way. I have recently started getting discomfort in my right flank/around the base of my ribs. Families are also prone to communication problems that can interfere with the family dynamic and lead to conflict within the family unit. Thank you for your response , The gastro advises me after taking the antibiotics for Sibo then do food map diet and take one of the PPI omeprazole along probiotic and see if it gets better then if not they will ck my acid level by inserting a tube as you said sometimes we have low acid . If you ever need to talk, I am here. dissapointed on the ulcer however as thought would be/provide remedy for resolve. I'm working with two therapists and a behavioral specialist to help me out of this. I feel sick all the time. I'm very thankful for your post because now I know I'm not alone. The focus stays on the feeling, and the goal continues to be alleviating the uncomfortable feeling. Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. The anxiety (about health and dying) is ALL the time. Use of the forums is subject to our Terms of Use Sometimes constipated, sometimes diarrhea. I feel your pain, you have my sympathy and hope that by telling my tale, you know that there are other women out there going through the same thing. These Drs truly dont listen heck the emts mentioned menopause. Eventually you have to come off both. it started jan 2016 but past 3 months have beem horrible. I've been to the doctors office twice regarding this. How are your bladder problems? Dr. ruled out ear infection. I had similar bladder/urinary issues when I was in the menopause transition which disappeared after menopause. My prayers are with all of us. Are you having any other symptom besides the pressure in bladder? Then there are times when i do not want anything. We are strong women and our bodies go through so much (bleed like a stuck pig for decades of our life, push amazing objects our of us the size of an average bowling ball then try and figure out what to do with this object for the next 18 years cuz the little suckers don't come with handbooks, our bodies are dis-figured and scared out of love, then we go through THIS - lol). Have you ever had difficulty burping? Mahmoodi A, Bahrami B, Mehring C. Reciprocity of social influence. when i do deep breathing to try and relieve the anxiety it causes I feel a heaviness in my chest. I had no idea all of this would hit after periods stopped, in postmeno. All my children have grown up and move away. Have you ever gotten this? This article discusses what "I feel" statements are, how they are used, and why they are beneficial in communication. Just had mild hot flashes, periods all over the place and that was about it. earlier this year I had a terrible panic attack. Its supposed to be a bone/liver blood marker. Then COVID. I would so love to meet some of you ladies. every 2 days. I don't have any other "bad" symptoms like bloating, bleeding, heart burn, weight gain just this pressure down. Used correctly, they can remove an accusatory tone in the speaker's statements and allow people to express their point without getting a defensive reaction. Strangely I don't have hot flashes yet but I'm sure they are around the corner. I feel tired and joint pain. It can be helpful to look at how feeling statements might be utilized in communication. When you say you know the feeling, do you feel really rotten too? My sed rate was also high over 120. While these messages can vary, there are three essential components of afeeling statement: This refers to stating the speaker's real feelings only, and it starts with the word "I." I also have a lot of bladder problems, urgency pressure. My daughter was involved in a fatal car accident in January. Hopefully it's the end of my period as I'm 53. I've had this for the last 3 months. It is not all the time but it seems to hit me every few months and lasts for about a week. I've done that too a few times. I cant quite put my finger on all the unwellness i feel, but have a doctor cousin who assures me that what i feel is valid even if doctors dont quite understand it. i did speak to a therapist about it which really helped and i told my parents. Back in July my period had stopped for 7 months and i thought, great im almost done then in January I got it again and every month since then and all the symptoms came back 10 times worst!! x, Hi, my periods are very irregular, I won't have a period for 3-4 months, then I'll have one every 18 days a few times, the 5 months withoutI've had quite a lot of tests, bloods, been to 2 neurologists, gynae, gastro docs, all okish, except for Sibo and low in vit d and iron. I have always feared death but in the past year it's been terrible. I just had a very light period (after skipping 2) and can truthfully say, the only 2 days I felt completely normal in the past 2 months were the day before and the day I started. Put a little on your finger. Then it will go away and come back. I have had it for YEARS (and I mean YEARS) so if THAT was anything, I would be dead by now! I'm always making a drs appointment about something! Karen, on the other hand, was more likely to receive a response that focused on reducing her frustration level. I'd greatly appreciate hearing from you if/when convenient for an update. I have never had children but if i had id try to give them a heads up. I also get rib pain on my left side only, comes and goes. Perhaps the other person would start giving examples of how they do let her say what she wants to do, start complaining that they always do what she wants to do, or even complain back that she never asks what they want to do. Still I feel scared being on my own during those panic attacks and anxiety. My heart goes out to everyone dealing with this. Have any of you ladies had this? Glad to hear back from you. For me, faith too is cornerstone in this struggle. Muscle twitches in calves and feet. I'm here for you if you need to talk, Hi Viola, I was afraid this thread was dead since the last entry was 6 weeks ago but still wanted to give it a shot. Hi Sherricl & Ukkiwibird (and all you lovely ladies out there)!!! 2018;6:e4831. Out of all the symptoms I have had, the urinary ones were the worst! The nurse was lovely and all fine. I just went to my gyno yesterday and she wanted be to take anxiety medicine for at least one month to see if it works, instead of putting me of HRT. I am taking a natural supplement for perimenopause but don't know if it's helping. I also have lower central back pain but I have 3 messed up vertebrae so that is explained. How are you doing darlin. The idea of "I statements" was introduced during the 1960s by psychologist Thomas Gordon as a way to help children learn to connect emotions with behaviors during play therapy. NO appetite, food sits at top of stomach, can just nibble, losing a lb. How is taking proprabolol ? Thank you for your testimony! i am glad to say while they can still come, they are at least frequent. Hargie O. (lol). Hi Vicky. Thank you again for responding!. Not sure if i mentioned it earlier but one of my worse symptoms is the bladder pressure. My doctors say they fodt worry about my levels unless it was 3 times higher. I hope that reassures you a bit. We sound like sisters from another mister (lol). 'I feel' statements are a way of communicating the speaker's feelings or beliefs. Thank you In advance . Yes, I take all the supplements I need, I drink plenty of water and I'm now on the Fodmap diet for Sibo. I saw your post about rib and left side pain. yes I'm the same. I understand the confusion between peri symptoms and recovering from Covid. Let's face it, when you're feeling like a loser you don't feel anything else. She will be ok but it's going to be a long drawn out legal battle as the driver fled and his best friend died. Ive been told by my male gynecologist that i dont have vaginal atrophy. Registered in England and Wales. I've been in perimenopause for five years now, but this fear and anxiety started this year, now with the lockdown and Covid19 it's even harder for me. My health anxiety is dreadful. i had the same fear about dying and losing my parents and it eventually got better and went away. Allergies are also annoying, coffee and oats for me and now I crave a cappuccino and porridge!! i also get alot of left rib pain - and over the last couple of years it's radiated to my back as well. And always scared of everything. I've had anxiety since little, so I'm ALREADY on meds for it, benzos. No cancer or ulcer found, thank God! For the last 7 years. Insomnia. Well i dont want my levels any higher. x. I feel like under the possession of an evil force. It happened twice. Instead of focusing on the actions or behaviors of the listener, feelings statements focus on how those actions make the speaker feel. I then drove back home and quietly went to bed. It will be 3 years in December since my last period. Just let me know if you have any questions. I was having weird urinary type symptoms that come and go. What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality. I am about 2 months shy of my menoversary and i dont want anything to interfere with that. Treatment such as creams and pessaries are often very effective in helping the symptoms. I-messages can also be a helpful way to provide constructive feedback to other people. I last bled in December and FSH test came out at 76. When one person is communicating in a way that is non-confrontational and emotion-focused, the listeners are more likely to match their own responses to that of the speaker. I also have low back pain but I have 3 facet joints in my lower back that are shot so the back pain (I think) is explained. How Much Relationship Privacy Do You Need? sometimes i dont want to be alone and then all i want is to be alone . Ideally, this allows the other person to concentrate on helping to alleviate the discomfort, rather than defending themselves. While there is no guarantee that the other person will respond in a receptive way, using feeling statements can minimize the risk that the conversation will devolve into hostility and argumentativeness. My main concern right now is this bladder pressure. As always, life is full of complexities, and there's never a "right time" to do menopause. My shoulder blade and ear and throat pain have gotten better and I was feeling pretty good and now I'm having alot of acid relux and feeling like I need to burp and cant. It occured to me when I had a bout of yeast infections that would not go away without diflucan for about three months, but the feeling when I knew I had a yeast infection was bladder discomfort like Interstitial Cystitis. However, regularly feeling misunderstood can be a sign of a need to work on communication skills. Read our editorial policy. I'm new to this site and I'm so grateful I've stumbled upon this forum. The doctors didnt have an answer as to why so thats what got me googling which led to my health anxiety. PeerJ. We will get through this together/apart and I can't tell you (to the moderators) how much I personally appreciate this forum.It has some nights made the difference of me going to sleep with peace of mind I am not alone! But now, postmenopausal my life is pure misery. i am 45 and feel like im losing my mind periods come very regular but the past theee months i had one hospital stay because of racing heart that comes and goes, vertigo, hot flashes the stomach wrenching anxiety full ear head feeling periods are a nightmare. My problem now is the pain between shoulder blades and moving to the front. Is this a normal thing with this (post-menopause)? Can I ask which menopause supplements are you taking? When i had a TVUS done they said my lining was thick. Couples therapy and family therapy are two types of psychotherapy where people practice this form of interpersonal communication. Yes i pretend all is well, i dont speak about the extent of my situation as most people think you are over reacting, because when they look at you physically you are ok, but its inside thats suffering. I speak to my kids about the situation but not to the full extent of what I'm going thru, so they don't really understand all these weird symptoms I'm getting. I occasionally get tachy but not as often as I used to. All rights reserved. usually i am a really positive person but lately it is hard to be positive. Both Susan and Karen are experiencing the same situation and feeling, but Karen uses a feeling statement, while Susan does not. I wondered how you were doing as this sounds a lot like me right now hope you see doing well. Sherri, as I was reading your post, I had to stop and look up it was not one I wrote. 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